hi everyone,
am posting here as a sort of last resort thing and hope am not offending anyone because am not a child nor parent though do have a nearly one years old neice that am very protective of.

am female,twenty seven years old and have multiple disabilities including severe autism [am mentaly high functioning],multiple/global learning disability,epilepsy & other stuff.

have been living in institutional and residential care since twentyth birthday and am under the care of various learning disability and autistic services,but very few staff have ever known about any issues.

have been bullied entire life-in school both by teachers as our catholic school was still allowed to use physical punishment back then and they used it like a child uses sweets.
was roughly restrained by them onto tables or slammed into the walls and pinned.
was continuiously put on 'formal report' for 'attacking teachers',parents woud some times come in complaining
about their innocent child being attacked-they left out the fact was coerced into fighting by them every day.

was bullied by the same local,total strangers on the street,attacked with bricks and plastic bottles,as well as the verbal abuse-all due to being obviously disabled to them through behavior and also for having ginger hair.

-to the online bullying problem...
-this person,am pretty certain is a male.
he uses many,many accounts/personas both male and female,and he pretends to have different disabilities,or creates various big family or personal crisis every day to get attention.

have known him as a 'her' for many years.
was slowly befriended by him,and everything he said was incredible because we were exactly the same-had never known another person alike before-almost every person that did know like self were to low functioning to use internet communication.

most assume we are not able to use computers nor the internet but most also dont get expelled from school at fifteen and never found another placement.
day and night was using the internet,and at sixteen was
introduced by a specialist to forums as a way at building a better understanding of communication as at that time,was still not able to communicate in full sentances, only echolalic one worded answers.

anyway,some years went by when this bully/stalker had first came into life.
had not known this at the time,but was being highly manipulated by him,into giving him details of medications,aids and building adaptions am using for the autism related issues,as he said he needed the same stuff but his mum didnt want him getting help.
-had wrote a blog for years on autism,general disability and residential care experiences and he had copied a lot of this-even word for word.
he copied entire life including the family,and what all that was like.

everytime was desperate for help on the forums, and had posted looking for some support,he woud copy and paste the same thing just making some of the words sound more extreme,so that all the user attention went to him and they were too tired too go into another big topic.
-he then started to bully with different accounts, coming onto the blog and leaving nasty messages,leaving nasty comments on some sign language videos that had made to help other people,he continuosuly tried to pull into big debates as he knew information processing was a weakness,so was pulled into his trap.

he even used other accounts of his to say that all 'low functioning autistics shoudnt be allowed to enter serious topics because we spoil it for other people with our lack of inteligence.
-was forced off the site by his many accounts via PMs and posts saying that was thick and useless and didnt deserve the right to be there.

he used another account to try and support over the bullying he was doing,and wanted to know how had felt about it,what was going to do etc.

had started to notice him making mistakes, copying and pasting stuff from the blog onto the forum,he was using it to try and pass it off as his life,in an attempt to get attention off people.
he projected all his own failings onto mine/self.

had finaly left that forum and gone to another one where some friends where, they confirmed what was going on,
had felt like a total idiot for having being manipulated, identity/experiences stolen,and attacked by him for years.
had become a bit more aware of him,his posting style,
persona etc-there is a core of a person which is almost impossible to hide and usualy always comes out eventually.
had began to experience threats on other forums and realised this was him doing it,he was now stalking across every forum was moving to.

he kept trying to befriend again,using the same old tricks he used before.
he woud attack if ever looked for some advice/support on a forum,whenever had spoke about abuse which had happened at home and during institutional care,he woud start a campaign to rubbish it saying how its an insult to post when people with much worse cases [like his...*yawns*] exists.

he also uses the fact am awarded high rate mobility component of disability living allowance for severe behavioral reasons and he tries to pull up insulting things which in his mind says shoud not be allowed high rate mobility component.
he makes lots of accounts to attack about this,and also to
rant about being the owner of a blue badge through high rate mobility,as he has said in the past he was refused both high rate mobility and a blue badge for violent behavior through borderline personality disorder,which is a different type of issue to what we have altogether.

his abuse campaigns have over time,lead to severe major depressive disorder and triggered pyschosis-
last year,was emergency diagnosed and medicated for these,and was told if was not living in residential care woud have had to of been sectioned there and then.

he has left some permenent mental scarring,am not able to get even the slightest bit close to people online anymore now,and am very paranoid of anything on the internet.
was also worn down so much by him that had attempted slitting of main veins and artery on many ocasions with whatever coud find as well as hanging,he woud post fake negatives on forum feed back to say that am thick and useless.

there is one other point that had wanted to speak to someome else about,as have never said anything about it before.
am wondering if he is actualy working in our organisation.
a long while ago,a guy got a job at our residential centre,
was stared at by him all the time,and he often came out with extracts from posts that had recently written from one site,had never replied about it.
had also caught a glimpse on his phone screen one day,
he was texting someone whom he had named the same long title as the domain name owned by the cyber bully/stalker.
-have only started to think about this again,because one of the support staff who is very knowledgeable in online bullying,has tried to encourage into allowing the police to get involved,one of his points was that he coud try and get a job here.....all that stuff just came back up.
he might be innocent,he still works for the organisation and with other people he seems to be caring from what have seen.


am very very sorry it has took so long to get down here.
--the support staff who work where am living now know about it,and the one who is quite advanced with online bullying,has said that this is called 'grooming of a vulnerable adult',and he coud be doing it to others and even children.
have got a few problems with police getting involved.
----what woud police do exactly?
----woud they want to take the laptop away,or monitor everything that have ever written or am yet to write on the internet or woud it just be advice?



what is other peoples views on situation?
thanks!