My daughter says we are NOT her family! [Replies: 0]
My oldest daughter s 26 and is broken ;( I have tried over and over again to help her, moving her every two months from different people's homes. She is so abusive, lies and the worst thing is I sometimes wonder if she really know how to tell the truth?! We do not get along and as much as I feel for her I know I cannot help her. She has been diagnosed as Bipolar but will not get not meds so whoever she lives with gets sick of her chaos destruction because she does care or appreciate anything! The 3rd day she was here (sharing a room w/16yr old sister) she has a guy sneak through the window and had him hidden sleeping where he wouldn't be seen! When I confronted her she said he's her family not us. She recently for 2nd time was in jail and had no place to go so I said only if she got a job and tried she can temporary move back. BIG MISTAKE! Not even 1week into this she gets in my face yelling & cursing & saying again, we are not her family, she hates us, does not need us. Why is she here? I don't want to kick her out because it's Christmas time and she is still my daughter but her hate has the whole family upset! The thought of her not having somewhere to go is my problem but it is hard not to care about my own! I love my daughter, but I do not like her. She is too old for tough love puts down religion and I don't think she will ever feel the pain she causes until she has kids of her own. I am so tired of her put downs, I need your help my knees hurt from praying! Please help this heavy heart.....